MJ - No, not meeting with FIL again after I ran into him. He was able to tell me what he needed to tell.

2Step - I think that what you wrote is good advice. I need to tread carefully.

BTW, FIL is not really my W's dad. It is her step dad and they do not have a close relationship at all. He's more of a fly on the wall over at W's mom's house. W's mom is in my corner, but she went dark on me at the beginning of this so that she wouldn't come across as not being supportive of her own daughter. Every time I speak with FIL it is her exact words that FIL heard that I am most interested in hearing. ... Such as "if Denver plays his cards right he could with W back".

BITS!
Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce