I hear you FOBD, on all counts. The one thing that i haven't mentioned is that my FIL is really far removed from my W. He is actually her step dad and not close to her at all. He became part of her life the year before she graduated from H.S. and then she moved away. So they're not very bonded. W would never tell FIL something personal. W's mom, on the other hand, is very close to W. W's mom has gone dark on me since the beginning of this. Not bc she doesn't want us to work it out, but bc she didn't want it to appear that she was taking my side over her own daughter's. So W's mom would never tell me any of this stuff that I have been hearing. FIL is telling me stuff he hears from w's mom which he is not suppose to tell me. It all hearsay stuff so i do need to be careful with the info, but its also my only window into what is going on with W.

And I promise not to leave these boards until every man and woman is successful. Leave no man/woman behind!!

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M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce