It sounds like you are well grounded emotionally right now FOBD, so I'm not too worried about you making a major decision until you have thought it out first. That's the danger in acting right after a traumatic event. The event in your case being this past weekend.

I think that the fact your W is trying to push your buttons is actually a good thing. It'd be way better than if she just shut you out on what is going on completely, right?

Again, if I were you, I go back to following LRT for a couple of weeks and see what transpires. I know that it seems like a step back, but it worked for you when she first moved.

BITS!
Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce