hell at the doorstep,again

[AntoniaB]

yellowrose I'm just not even knowing what to say. I guess I figured that in some cases, things are fixed, and in your case, that seemed to be so, but now, you're saying that your spouse is going back in the tunnel.

I guess the best thing is that you have a "been there done that" mentality. You are primed for this. You know what to do. So take comfort in that.

I still think this stinks for you and my heart goes out to you. It makes me think about me, when my H came back last year after he left the first time, when I thought it was all A-OK and then, he drops on me "no, now I've got someone else on top of it." They can be so convincing that things are ok that you never see it coming.

I imagine that in your case, you ARE seeing it coming WAY before you would have before, so you at least have a chance to proceed with what you have learned.

I wish you much luck :-)