Hi SA - As you know we are on about the same time line...I could be hit with the D papers at any time, even though H so far didn't mentioned the D word. But having to do the legal SA is close....tearing apart all that we have built together...Once we are legally separated...the D papers are really just a formality...

I too feel overwhelming sense of loss and can't comprehend how my sweetie could become what/who he is now....sometimes I tell myself...almost 50% of marriages fall apart...many other people go through this then build a new life and are happy...well that's my plan...If I can't be happy with him, I'll be happy without him...

Hang in there SA...you will make it through this (((((hugs)))))


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO