Ok, I do the same, but bear in mind - some brilliant men can still be dyslexic. The smartest grad student in my biochemistry program couldn't spell at all. And just the other day, I ran across a profile of a guy who was smart, well-spoken, actually has an academic job - and his profile was riddled with errors. (He's too young for me but I wrote to him and offered my editing services, which he accepted, lol. Us online daters need to stick together!)