Last night I initiated a chat with her, and all I asked her was what her thoughts on filing taxes Married Jointly was. She said sure that's fine, I don't care. I said that I needed her W2's then, and the conversation ended.
Her Mom called today, since we talk about once a week. She brought my wife up, and was curious as to why she hasn't heard much from her. She was concerned as to how things are going, and all I could say is that I honestly don't have a clue how things are. My wife talks to her mother about once a week, but neither of us have heard from her in a bit.
I feel like I need to let her chase me, and it'll take about 1 1/2 weeks of not chatting with her before she will initiate contact, but at the same time I feel like I need to get the taxes done which requires contact with her.