Someone suggest H is having a MLC....I don't know?

[Queen_of_Swords]

I'm glad you're feeling you won something PEImom, from the things I've read on your various threads, if nothing else you have your self respect.

As for me I've still not made a decision either way. The H is acting weird. Acting contradictory to his intent. I'm not going to push things forward or precipitate anything. I'm not going to be a lady in waiting either.

He's made it abundantly clear by his behaviour that he has little respect for me. It hurts. Whatever. I've walked around with broken bones before, I can be stoic. My emotion is wasted energy.

I have done what my DB counselor has recommended. I have been cordial, happy and chirpy when I speak to the H, on the opportunities I do have, according to someone that has seen me interact with him.
I show interest in his life and listen. I don't text, email, phone, invite him to family activities, or initiate contact otherwise. The results are indeterminate.

So now my challenge is this, what to do next. Keep doing what I'm doing or not?
He doesn't miss me, he isn't interested in my life and if he didn't have to, he wouldn't choose to speak to me either.

Is it time to pick a neutral ground and do the kid exchange thing at McDonald's and just fade out as he walks in? Giving him a written update of the kids' lives packed in with their clothing, rather than talking to him at all? Letting his goodnight calls go to voicemail, rather than picking up the phone?

He wants me gone, so just go invisible?