W called me twice today back go back. No message, no text. I did not answer or call her back. It has only been 4 hours and it feels so wrong. I feel worse. W probably doesn't feel anything right now. This s•cks. How did we get here, really?
Doesn't matter how we got here man. We're here. I do know that I was a bad H off and on for the better part of a year, so that's the best answer for myself. Anyway, I know that not calling her back feels wrong. It is the worst. But this is what your W needs right now. As long as she knows that you are going to be there to answer her whenever she calls or texts, she has NO reason to MISS YOU. You need to stay dark for a while and see what happens. Again, it really did help my sitch in the first few weeks.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
