Thanks for stopping over on my thread. I struggle with the same issues with dealing with OW. My H says she is just a friend. I so want to believe him, however I think he is in denial over EA or he has no interest in woman. I do not think I will ever know the truth for sure.
I know and have been told to detach and focus on you, not H or OW. That does help. Vent here as often as needed, that REALLY helps too! We all are commited to our M's and really need to constructively do what is needed to heal and move forward.
We are all on this journey to learn and become stronger. I wish I had that magic pill that would take away the jealousy and betrade feeling, but I don't. Hang in there. It will get better!! nik
