after a little more than a year i am back

[Denver_2010]

Hi grr. So sorry that you find yourself here again. I thought I'd weigh in since you asked for a guy's perspective. Unfortunately, as you know, you are dealing with a WAH. Most likely, your H believes that he has made up his mind, that he is sure about his decision, about his feelings. But most likely, he is in a fog and is confused himself. He is helping you with the house bc he feels guilty and wants to do the right thing. I believe that this is his male instinct kicking in. The good thing though is that means that he does still care about you and son.

How old are you and H? That may help you get good advice.

I think that you ought to finish with the house and then go as dark as possible for a while. Begin to utilize the LRT. I'm assuming that you have read Divorce Remedy. If not, read it ASAP.

I hope that things turn around for you. Remember that there is always hope!

Denver_2010