thanks for all the support and please keep helping because i am trying not to read too much into these next things, but it is hard.... we have been spending days together, working on our new house (that he is now staying in while my son and i are with my parents) and he has dinner with us most every night then he goes home alone a few nights back, while he was alone, he called me 2x in 2 hours, for no specific reason just to tell me that the shower needed a good cleaning and that his back hurt the next morning he called early, just to say hi and plan our day later on he called and told me that he would be spending the next 2 nights with us (because there was going to be a severe snow storm and he wanted to be around) tonight will be the 2nd night he is staying and then tomorrow he leaves to play some shows for a week and a half (he is a singer in a rock band) he also called me a few times today at work help - because if i let myself go there, i will imagine he is having a change of heart but i guess he may just be tryint to be a good guy and do things right? confused and would love some guy (and girl) insight as always, thank you