Hey Lost! I just got up with your posts today. It sounds to me like you are doing a fantastic job! H thinking that you are pulling away is exactly what you want right now, IMO. I didn't realize that you had set so many boundaries and that booting him was just your last idea. I think that you ought to continue what you are doing and give it more time.

Fact that he and OW have defriended on FB is also encouraging.

Great work!!!!!

BITS!
Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce