Till death do us part... or she leaves...

[Denver_2010]

Are you suggesting that you agree with his C that he should file for D?

What FOBD's C is suggesting is the 'after the LRT' technique in MWD's DR book. FOBD is NOT in that position yet... IMHO.

FOBD - Like I said last night, I think that you should think long and hard about some of the advice your C is giving you. I've said this a number of times on this board, but when someone wants to shoot you in the head, you don't hand them the gun!

I think that's what filing for D can be when it's not what you want. You want to buy as much TIME as possible so that you give your W to come to her senses.

That doesn't mean that you don't detach or that you can't dark again for a while... But actually filing for the D??? I don't know man, just a week ago you were journaling how much you love this woman and want her back...

My 2 cents...

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Denver

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