I understand. But when you open yourself up here, you need to be able to accept advice. That's why I came on here because I need advice. I don't have all the answers so I need to make sure I stay open to your suggestions and those of others. So if I got something wrong, PLEASE, PLEASE tell me.
Ok, so that's where I think we are at right now. He's at the point where he thinks he's about to lose me. I'm out a lot (mostly at the gym, but also doing other things). I'm on the phone a lot. I'm on the computer a lot (mostly with you guys). I never go out in the living room with him when I am home. I don't fawn over him. I don't take care of the things I used to for him. I don't answer half his calls. He knows that I am pulling away. We were friends (actually enemies and I was best friends with one his friends) when my first marriage ended. So he knows the signs and he's seeing some of them right now. I'm not drinking, but I did a lot then so that's the key part missing. But I think he knows I'm pulling away. Heck, my mother is furious with me because she thinks I'm pulling away. Did I mention that she has requested that they be friends on FB? My mom is selling me out Not really, but I think they are talking.
Not really, but I think they are talking.
