Be prepared for her to waffle on talking to the db coach or pulling away from you in general. Don't pursue just validate how she feels and go about your business. Women test men to see if they are strong in their convictions. You said you have "zero expectations" she will test your resolve on that.
Next time you are on the phone find a reason to end the call first. Be polite and honest just you are a busy man with things to do. Let her pursue you, cats love to hunt. 180 the dynamics.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
