Ok, that makes sense. If you are not comfortable talking to him face to face, then definitely don't. Only you know what's right for you.

Let me ask you question. What signs are you looking for that would show you that he's truly changed and genuine?

What is going to make you happy right now??? Are you still committed to making your marriage work? Are you taking time for yourself to consider that answer. Where are you mentally?

Did you find your shovel??? smile

Take care of yourself!


Me- 40
H - 43
M - 5
T - 14
Separated 2/5/11