My husband and I are having trouble. We havn't had sex in at least 6 months. I'm the low drive partner. He says that he still loves me, bu I worry that he's having an affair (I worry all the time!). We've talked about things and had agreed to try the "Great American Sex Challenge", but it's awkward to initiate since it's been so long. I'm 41 and went through early meenopause, so the last time we had sex it hurt and it was a disaster. I keep thinking about this and am afraid and anxious about the next time. How do we get started? How do we move past the awkwardness?
