Now to your other comment... What did you feel deep down when you were getting married??? Did you think that this was going to last forever? Probably. Listen, our deep down feelings are just plain screwed up sometimes. Sometimes our instincts are right, but sometimes they are wrong. And often, they are dictated by the circumstances going on right now.
A month ago, "deep down" I thought my marriage was completely over too. Right now, "deep down" I don't think my marriage is over. A month ago, my H was acting like a first class jerk. Today, he's still a first class jerk, but he's a first class jerk who's pursuing me.
The point is these feelings are fleeting. I am not asking you, though, to shake those feelings. I am asking you to get yourself in the best position for the fight.
I am so proud of you and I hope that you do well with this interview today!!!!
