You rock! She does not want to divorce you. She is lost and filing papers was either something she did out of anger and hurt to see your reaction or something that she was talked into doing by some friend, family member or whoever. I think you are at a fragile point right now and it could go either way at this point. The challenge is that she is so far away right now physically. I think your next step is to talk to your DB coach and debrief her of your conversation and if she suggests that you guys have a conference call, then great.

I would not reengage her about any R talk until after talking to your DB coach. Wow 5 1/2 hours. I don't think I have talked a total of 5 1/2 hours w/ my W in the last 4 months! smile

Keep on keepin' on!

B.I.T.S.


M42
W38
D5D7
M8
Living as 'roomates' since 9-12-10
Moved out 1-7-11
FIL threatened to kill me 1-20-11