SIC, That is great. When my W said she can't continue living like we were living, as roommates, and not even nice ones, she brought up splitting up the house. Your W went the other direction and starting talking about the overall impact of a possible split. Punchy is exactly right in that she is thinking more globally then just about herself. I would say that things are looking up for you from that regards. Make sure that she continues to initiate these types of talks. You WILL succeed.
It sure looks like there are some real positive things happening amongst some of the B.I.T.S....can I be next to join that?!?!?!?!?!?
B.I.T.S.
M42 W38 D5D7 M8 Living as 'roomates' since 9-12-10 Moved out 1-7-11 FIL threatened to kill me 1-20-11