Till death do us part... or she leaves...

[ScaredinCanada]

Hey FOBD,

#1, #2 and #11 really sting to me, but in my current sitch none of those things have happened yet. I also agree though that none of them are deal breakers, and I also agree that I don't see the point in filing for D. Why make it easier for HER?

Also, I'm not a huge fan of C's. The one I was going to was an idiot, she kept notes but didn't have them available when I came for my next appointment. When I told her I was done I mentioned that I had taken the step to deal with my mother like she suggested - and she left me a rambling message about "if you want to goto your M for C I guess that's your choice". I'm like, this bitch doesn't remember anything about me or what we talked about!! So like others have said if you feel like you have a good connection to your C, where there is mutual discussion then I would keep going to him - does he let you disagree with him?

I posted an update in my thread, felt like some positive progress but I could just be reading too much into things. My W seems like she's ona bit of an emotional roller coaster at the moment so I'm never exactly sure what I will get.

She is stuck on the fact that "ILYBNILWY", she doesn't see how any amount of trying will fix it or if you have that feeling should you even try to fix it.

I have at least 3 months before we'll have to make a decision about selling the house - I think her trip away for a week will be really telling. Baby steps is all I can expect, and I need to show her that I'm strong, confident and a man that she should want to be with.

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