Wife and I were home together for the first time in a week or so last nite. we looked at places together. We both want her to move out at this point. Tjack, I was looking for a place for her, and she had already looked at everything I found! She wants independence bigtime. And I am having a very hard time detaching with her there. She says "there is no way for you to heal with me here". She says everything to do with being home reminds her of all the hurt she had in the marriage. I am trying to be strong, am I am still doing well on 180's in Some areas, but not all. What pisses me off is everything she says makes total sense. I believe she is taking comfort in her friends, which she has been for a long time, also many are male. She tries to hide this fact from me.
