Is the tide turning???????

[Sanderika]

Hi GAG,

I'm pleased that you had a nice TT visit last night. I do however read something into his behavior.

Last week he was very engaging and flirty on his own. This week he was very stand-offish and behaving more cold, like they get when they feel we are getting too close.

Missher, this is my exact fear! This happens every time we (ladies) try and get too close. We get flirty and touchy and they engage for a very brief period and then turn away and seem more to push us away. It's a dance that gets G-D frustrating. I have lived it so many times, thus I caution now at getting too close to my H and advise others to play it cool a while longer to make sure of emotions. I have to think GAG experienced this same thing last night.

I find it very interesting that he brought up the anonymous
package in conversation at the end of your visit. He was prying for more information. This subject still bothers him.

I have the thoughts that he was pre-occupied all evening with thoughts unrelated to the game or company. He may have been in a good mood....Why was he sullen, untalkative and IMO somewhat cold.

The comment to your question regarding how BMF and BMF's XW are getting along is very interesting as well. He didn't answer your question instead mentioned that BMF doesn't mind HIS contact with BMF's XW. What are the dynamics between XH and BMF's XW?

GAG, my wishes for tonight are that all goes very well or even better at X-MIL birthday party. Since BMF will be there, good luck that you can entertain him without any negative feelings.

Have a wonderful day and I hope you finished up the chair pads.

Sanderika