FOBD,

I dont agree w/your C about filing for Divorce. NOBODY can make that call but, you when your ready. It concerns me that your C keeps talking about this. Maybe you should switch C and find one that wants to help you and save your marraige? Just a thought?

Your right, there is nothing on the list that is a deal breaker. You should call a DBing C to get the right feedback. But, I think your at that place where your not seeing much from her yet. It does not mean it wont turn around.

Just keep moving forward..keep your self busy w/friends or family. You can do it...you have come so far already. Least she is speaking to you!!!

Hang on friend...Praying for you!


Me: 40 H: 39
M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs
No kids
Seperated: May 18, 2006
EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving.
2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010