I am happy to read that H is spending a good deal of time with D. I think it's wonderful that she was able to forgive him his shortcomings.
It sounds to me that H is still filled with doubts. It's so funny that they just cannot seem to go very long without checking up on us and our activities.
I hope you have decided on a new phone plan. It makes sense to remove that thorn from the equation as it is currently giving H some grief. The less he has to complain about the better. It also goes a long way in proving you are not dependent on him.
I hope your weekend is going well.....
Take good care,
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11
Sorry I haven't written sooner. I've been thinking about you all week. I'm curious about something. At the end of December it sounded like H was planning to move away but I haven't seen anything about that on your thread. Is this still a possibility? Has H found a job?
Hope YOUR job is going well. Are you taking classes again this semester? thought you were taking classes last fall, but maybe I am confused and you were actually instructing classes. I am glad that you feel you are in a good place to move forward with your life. You sound strong. Are things going well?
Wish I was in Australia right now! We've had a 4 day cold snap. Close to 0°F for highs during the day and -10°F at night. Blech!
Exhausted from all the concentrating at work and no real news except I have heard nothing from H but he is keeping up contact with D. Today he gave D a movie voucher he was given as a gift cos he's not going to use it. (I'm sure ow would love a trip to the cinema!!)
GAG, H hasn't mentioned moving again and he still only has casual employment. I believe he is looking for another business.
Thanks for your update. It is a good thing that you are busy right now, don't you think? You had expressed your intent to move forward, focusing more on you. Hope you have some time to do something nice for yourself too!!!
Glad that H is keeping in touch with D. That is important for your D and could lead to something in the future.
Wish you could send some of your hot weather our way!
Hi GAG< the hot weather is challenging! The humidity is really high.
I have been so busy I haven't had too much time to think about H but it's good that he is still in contact with D. D tells me that H asked her how my new job was going.