I WILL Attain my Goals - Personal and M

[Denver_2010]

11/26/11

So I end up running into FIL with SS this afternoon while I was having coffee. FIL had picked up SS from school bc he came down with pink eye.

SS latched onto me as usual. I gave him some money to run across the street to get ice cream.

FIL tells me that W's mom told him this... "if Denver plays his cards right, he can probably get W back."

He goes onto to tell me that W is telling her mom and sister that she doesn't think that I really love her bc I'm not doing anything to pursue her.

I asked how he knows that she told sister this. FIL says that sister called W's mom last night and told her that W had said that to her.

I told FIL that I didn't know what to do. The same stuff basically that I said in the text conversation I had with him the night before (above).

FIL tells me that I am giving W too much space and giving OM a chance to succeed in what he is trying to do.

I got p*ssed... not a FIL... just in general and said "OM is a predator attacking my W and family!"

FIL told me that I "could look at it that way." He went on to say that he does not know if W has had an affair with the guy, but that she spent time with him immediately after she moved out bc she was sad and lonely... and OM took the opportunity bc he is interested. He reiterated that he doesn't THINK that they are spending as much time together but he thinks that OM is still interested in my W.

I told FIL that I had to think about what I am going to do going forward.

I hung out with FIL for about 20 more minutes. W called SS to see how he was feeling. They then left.

W then called my phone. I ignored her call and then called her back about 20 minutes later.

W asked me if I thought SS was faking his pink eye to get out of school. I told her that I wasn't sure, but I didn't think so bc eye was pretty red. We chit chatted for a few minutes about what she did at work. I ended the convo and we both said 'talk to you later'.

Very pleasant conversations going on here!

Sooo, after all of this, I became extremely motivated, encouraged and FIRED UP! I drove to work at about 100 mph bc I had adrenaline rushing through my veins. "This is War" by 30 Seconds to Mars came on the radio and I turned it up full blast!

I decided that I was going to post my intention to hang OM by the end of this...

I'm going to send him to some website for broken hearted predators who prey on the wives of other men! This is a promise...

BITS!
Denver