FOBD, Be strong, brother. Go dark IMO. Don't ask her what she is doing. To her, you have to appear as you don't care what she is doing. I would have the converrsation w/ her about your grandmother and then go dark. You are absolutely correct when you say that everything is reversible. I don't know what filing for D would do as far as 'protecting' yourself as your C suggests. I think you just need to hang tight and work on GAL. But what the hell do I know?!? I'm more of a basket case then you are.
Getting a DB coach will be very helpful, but my recommendation is to wait a week or so B4 getting one. I think you just need to settle down from a very traumatic weekend you just endured.
How's that hand?
B.I.T.S
Wow... I just said almost the exact same thing as MJ in my post. MJ just did it much more succinctly!
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
