FOBD, Be strong, brother. Go dark IMO. Don't ask her what she is doing. To her, you have to appear as you don't care what she is doing. I would have the converrsation w/ her about your grandmother and then go dark. You are absolutely correct when you say that everything is reversible. I don't know what filing for D would do as far as 'protecting' yourself as your C suggests. I think you just need to hang tight and work on GAL. But what the hell do I know?!? I'm more of a basket case then you are.
Getting a DB coach will be very helpful, but my recommendation is to wait a week or so B4 getting one. I think you just need to settle down from a very traumatic weekend you just endured.
How's that hand?
B.I.T.S
M42 W38 D5D7 M8 Living as 'roomates' since 9-12-10 Moved out 1-7-11 FIL threatened to kill me 1-20-11
