Isn't that interesting... I had a different take on that. Not that I'm disagreeing with what you're seeing in it; I'm just seeing something in addition. Here's what I saw...

Originally Posted By: Harrier

She spent about 1 hr on Monday evening emailing...Then she hi-tales it up to bed after she's done. No conversation, no spending any time.


So, why didn't you ask her to spend time with you after, if you were needing some connecting time?

Originally Posted By: Harrier
She has monday's off. She busts her butt to make a lunch with her co-worker (female). Then she has lunch out again with said co-worker on Tuesday. WTF? You think she'd do that for me?


Have you asked her about it and let her know you'd like to do that with her?

Originally Posted By: Harrier
She spends about 1 hr last night texting one of her mentors and her friends instead of interacting with me or our son. At least she stopped when she saw that I was annoyed.

Again, you had a choice here to politely interrupt her texting and ask her if she'd spend some time with you and/or your son instead. And, sorry to say, but acting annoyed about it in the hopes that she'd quit and choose you instead, is kinda passive aggressive.

I guess the trend I'm seeing is that you're not asking for what you want with her. You're not letting your needs be known. Thoughts?

I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.