Dixie, Feeling your pain and want you to know you are not alone. BITS never walk alone!
Look, on Sunday I freaked and left the house right before W got there to move out. And you know what, I AM GLAD I DID IT. I think my W had it all worked out in her head that I would be there and we would have a "good ole time" moving her out. I could sense some serious disappointment in her voice when I informed her I was not going to be there. Why, I don't know. I thought we were finished? Just a little sarcasm.
Anyway, it is OK. You are doing fine. But do go back to my earlier post to you. I still don't like what he is doing to you. It is not fair. You should not be anyone's "insurance policy." Get on the phone with a coach and get back in control of this thing. You have read my threads. No, I am not in the best place right now. But, it does make you feel better when you take some control. Do what Bond said. Mess with his mind just a bit and see what happens. I think he continues to mess with you because he has no fear of you being gone. You need to start making him feel like he could lose you.
Head up, chin out!
B.I.T.S.
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...
