2step, Let me commend you on your work today. You did a very nice job. I am very excited for you. That seed of doubt in her head is starting to grow and bare fruit. But, remember, plants don't just grow overnight. Have you ever planted tomatoes? The plant grows and grows and you start to get frustrated as the "farmer." But eventually one day, you go out to water your plant and it has a small yellow flower on it. Now, remember, you are still weeks away from eating your tomatoes, but you have seen the first sign of what could be to come. Congratulations on your "flower." Keep watering, keep tending to your plant. You could have more tomatoes than you can eat very soon, buddy!!!!
Just be careful. If she is starting to struggle, she will be extra confused and might even become irritable again. No one likes to wake up one morning and realize they made a mistake. Treat her with "kid gloves" for now. None the less, keep up the good work and congrats!
BITS never walk alone!
FOBD
Me: 39 W: 36 T: 15 yrs M: 9 yrs S: 09/10
So you can get on with your search, baby And I can get on with mine And maybe someday we will find, That it wasn't really wasted time...