Did your H move out again? My H said he would be moving back to the prison barracks if they had an opening and I am alright with that. I want him to have some space.
I have set bounderies and will not let him disrespect me for any reason.
I was talking to my H's uncle last week before all this started. Mind you I have never met him. He was talking about my H's mom and dad. My H's dad, I have never met either because my H doesn't want to have anything to do with him. His parents were D when he was 12. His dad treated his mother really badly and my H blames him for this. When H came home 4 years ago he saw alot of his dad in himself with what he did to me and the family.
Anyway, his mother did the best she could raising 4 boys by herself. H's uncle said that the boys were never taught to love and I think this is so sad because I come from a very close family.
When H's mother died is when he went straight forward into MLC.
I have learned alot from the first time going through this. I havent even cried today! Yippee! I have been keeping myself busy with my D and GD and messing around the house. Haven't talked too much to H today but I will leave that to him.
I know it is in God's hands and I will continue to pray that all comes out okay for my H.
