Yes, who does this at this age?!?! It was so hard at first to accept that I would likely be spending the last decades of my life single, after devoting the four middle ones to H and family, but now I see the opportunity to do so in ways that I want and H never would.
When H and I spoke about D's problems a couple of weeks ago, I mentioned that she had postponed an important professional obligation because of her condition, but I did not know the new date. Since then, I learned it, but had not had reason or opportunity to tell him, and he hadn't asked. So today I receive a text that he had dinner w/D, she seemed ok, and that they had "talked about the planned date for x," but he didn't mention the date. WTH? I guess I can share info with him, but he can hold it hostage? Not going to work. I have not, and will not, respond or ask.
With the little slips that have happened lately, and the more frequent trips to OW 's city a day's drive away, methinks that all is not well in Neverland. I really do feel very sorry for H as I witness this stuff. I will, however, stick to my plan.
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
