Scared and Alone

[Denver_2010]

God, that is so profound. And true.

2Step, I want him out. But I am so afraid that I want him out right now and I'd regret it if I told him that. But right now, I want him out.

Hi Lost. Sorry that you are having a rough time. You want my opinion? If no, stop reading now.

Others may disagree with this, but maybe you should ask him to leave the home. You are being totally disrespected. Worse, you are allowing it to happen. I say this as kindly as I can, but if you allow yourself to be disrespected, how on earth would he ever regain that respect? You have to stand up for yourself. Telling him to leave the home does not necessarily mean D... it just means physical S. I believe that in some cases, this can help the sitch. I really do believe that it is helping mine.

Bottom line, you have to stand up for yourself. Stop letting yourself feel humiliated.

[edited by dbmod to add comment--this advice can be dangerous, will explain further in a later post]
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Denver

P.S. I'm really glad that you liked my post tonight!! I have been runnin on adrenaline for about 24 hours!