Thank you sooooo much Hope and Yoyo! Thank you for your words of encouragement and praise!!! It really helps so much and thank you for sharing your wisdom and stories/struggles with me.
Ive prayed about it a lot and feel like I have my wits about me again. I had a good convo w/the C today. It helped a bit. But, I had a great convo w/my Dad!! I was shocked when he started saying things that sounded like DBing! lol
He told me, do not pursue at all. He said, if I'm there when he comes to get the Dog. Be nice, friendly, even smile and then leave first! Tell him thank you for letting me have the dog and go. But, do not talk about the relationship or what has happened. It must appear that you have accepted this...even if I have not.
WOW, I could've saved some money folks on the C today!!! If I would have talked to my DAD first!!! Funny cause, I never talk to my Dad about these things. He also helped me understand how I hurt H pride and what matters the most to men. Respect! How a man when respected by his wife feels loved. Dad had some really good things to say and he wants us to work! WOW!!!!
So, okay men folk out there!! Would you agree????
Well, I just got home from Church Choir. Gonna spend some time w/the Dog, tidy up the house and get to bed early. I'll need it for 2morrow.
Thank yall! I'm so blessed to have all of yall to help hold me up!!!
-Praying for us all always,
Dix
Me: 40 H: 39 M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs No kids Seperated: May 18, 2006 EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving. 2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010