MrBond, I hear you loud and clear. Am I guarded? Sure am. But I have seen that the texts have stopped. Communication is at a cold stop. My wife is much more attentive to me alone now. She still has to completely build my trust but it is definitely miles ahead of where it was just a few days ago.

I think what changed for her is that she wasn't truly aware that the texts were a "bad thing". She had no intention of hurting me and when she saw she was, she stopped it. I actually give her major kuddos for that.

m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE