W just called. I guess will call in a min means around 2 hours. Maybe this will be my baseline to start judging how well I am doing. Idk. I tried to sound content, and I think I did. I made a suggestion that we maintain a single checking account to make it easier to pay all of our bills, including her new apt. She said that sounded alright. I will take that as a good sign. I honestly thought she would have shot it down before I could finish my sentence. It is the only way I know to make sure all the bills will get paid. I could just imagine us having separate accounts and trying to get some of my bills paid. Seems like it would be a nightmare and possibly create more stress for us. I hope she doesn't change her mind. She did not hesitate when she answered. I will take what I can get, and again, I think this is positive. Any thoughts.
I'm putting everyting in quotes bc it takes so friggin long for my posts to show up that you probably wouldn't know what the h*ll I was talking about if I didn't.
Anyway, my only thought is... stop being so available to her!! Ignore her call and wait 24 hours to call her back. Not trying to beat you up, trying to get you on board here.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
