Only after she's on her own can there be any progress in either direction.
I have kept up with your thread Pickle. I agree with your statement that I have quoted above.
BUT... you do not need to do this in a non-DB way. You seem very angry right now. VERY understandable. But not usually helpful.
Don't sink to the level where your W is right now. Don't let anger guide you and your actions man.
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I'd also add that, IMO, you haven't given this enough time. I think that you do need space from W and need to get DARK. Remember, TIME AND PATIENCE.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce