I'm on your side. But I'm going to play devil's advocate with you here. Why do you think she's making a mistake? Pretend I'm her for a second.

1. Why am I making a mistake by leaving you?

2. What do you mean I haven't thought this through? I've done a lot of thinking and its just that, I am certain I don't want to be married to you anymore. Too much has happened. I live with my negative friend now. Don't need to continue on here.

M-34
XW-32
D-7
Found OM's presence 4/09
Separated 12/09
Divorced 8/10
GREAT relationship
as coparents since 8/10