You captured the essence of all of this so very well.

Yes, letting go is very difficult but hanging on is not working either. It does seem a bit better to try to gain some distance.

Ya, I have no idea what's going on in my X's head and why she keeps contact.
I believe the only reason she keeps in contact is to just "smooth" things over between us.

I have my kids tonight so I can't write too much, sorry.

Have a good night.....


Me/W: 46/36
D7.6/S6
T/M: 7.5/6.5
Bomb 12/05/07
D final: 03/03/09