Lighthouse lit until WAW comes out of fog 2

[habitacker]

2stepboogie,

Thanks for your post, my only problem is, almost all the advice I get is when you are talking to your spouse, such as validating.

My W don't talk. She's done. I have been doing everything I am supposed to be doing when there is no R talk to be trying to put a crack in the wall. It isn't cracking.

"Do what works" I am looking for something that works, so I can do it. If 4 months of complete seperation from R of any kind is not enough time, someone tell me so. I will keep chugging along. I just want to do what works, and I am looking for what does work.