Did you read Divorce Remedy, by any chance? I can honestly understand how it feels like everyone is telling you to cut her loose. That isn't exactly what everyone is saying. They are saying that you need to first work on you. You need to improve yourself and forget about the M for a little while. If she decides to divorce while you are doing this, then that's her poor decision. But you are not going to get her back by doing the same things all the time.
ADDITIONALLY, I am one that believes you need to take a serious look at your situation and your W's words. They really are very nasty and I don't believe you should allow her to speak to you that way. Do you speak to her that way? Perhaps you do and I misread the situation. But it really bothered me to read some of those things.
I think that I am also very bothered by your W's cavalier attitude towards M. You've barely been married for 6 months and she's already discussing D? I am so impressed by you showing up here to try and learn and do something. I am doubly impressed that you are man doing this. But, I think that your W has some maturing to do. I'm sorry if I am hurting you. You don't have a clue how much I don't want to do that because I am hurting so badly and I don't think I could handle if someone else was trying to hurt me. I want you to feel better. I so want that for you.
You must take care of yourself. You also should listen to kml who is giving some fantastic advice and things to think about financially.
You are worth making changes in your life! You are worth giving yourself the best chance at a great life!!!
