John, nothing moves that quick with divorce. From just your few posts I can confident ally say that you need to take a week of no contact to figure yourself out. One more text to say, I'll get back to you on that." and then no more. Leave her alone...even if she texts you. Just figure yourself out. Make a list of what you would like to improve about yourself and then start with other people...friends, coworkers, and strangers. You've crowded her out so bad that you need a chance to reverse things. Your response if she wonders is that you have been busy
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
