Look I am open to advice, but all I am getting are questions.
Coach: "I ask because your actions show me that you are OK with it."
Me: Please be specific??
Coach: "Your wife thinks the same thing. Do you think what you have been doing is bringing more love into the relationship or pushing her away?"
Me: What specifically??
Coach: "If you think it is bringing more love please explain why? Why would being passive push her away?"
Me: Nothing so far has been bringing more love. Being passive is pushing her away by signaling toleration of the EA.
JTB: "Coach is trying to help Pickle, and what he is suggesting worked well for him."
Me: What specifically is he suggesting? I am open to suggestions.
JTB: "He is right about the proper tools, got to know what the job is to know what tools to bring to bear on it."
Me: I am being served at 9:00 AM tomorrow. The only job left is to make present the cold reality and in the process destroy the fantasy.
Remember what I posted earlier: texting and phone calls every spare minute of every day, another planned rendevous in February.
If anyone has a better suggestion, please quit asking questions and be specific.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
