Shake things up? Well, last week when I went out, and did not tell her where I was going, I took the massage oil/personal lubricant out of her medicine cabinet with me. Left label by sink so I know she saw it.

No reaction, not a word.

H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair