sparks, your only chance is the end of the affair. She has to be the one to end it. Will she do so? Not in response to begging, pleading, or expressing undying love. You need to protect yourself and your child. Start by separating yourself some. Get your own account and perhaps have an initial consultation. Get documentation of everything...all these months of cheating. Then calmly tell you know and you aren't going to take it. I know it's hard and you don't want to lose her, but being the understanding weinie won't serve you well here. Be forceful and strong. Don't breakdown. I'd ask her to go and then get my own act together, but plenty would advocate staying together. That's nearly impossible if she's gonna be screwing daily...you'll look very unattractive. She needs to be out and working...no reason to support her screwing around on you.
After the confrontation work on making yourself the best possible you..for you
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
