Seriously, I absolutely believe that this is a great sign. This was a positive interaction. Very positive. It's only when they open up like this that the healing can begin. These wounds, they fester if they are not opened up and cleaned properly, you know?
No, she is not happy go lucky. She's seriously thinking about things. She's angry. I happen to think that this is a good thing too. When they are reacting, it's usually good, so long as we are keeping things positive.
Listen, something else happened here that is important. I'm thinking a lot about things... if WAS wants to come back, I imagine it is incredibly hard for them to state these things. I imagine that their pride is the stumbling block much of the time. She swallowed her pride big time! Now, she backpedaled a bit but I think that is absolutely normal.
You are in a delicate situation right now. Any chance of you talking to a DB coach to get this to the next step? I think you need the most qualified advice available about how to proceed.
