I posted that question a number of weeks ago. I agree that likely a lot of people are successful don't come back to talk about it - there busy with their new M!!
No they are busy on another marriage help website.
I was and am a success story. There is a reason you don't see many success stories about reconciliation especially when it comes to spouses in affairs.
Men read up on attraction (primal and intimate), respect in a marriage, busting affairs, 5LLs, validating, and how women communicate. Most guys don't do their homework, they just say that won't work and keep doing what hasn't been working.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.