So as I've posted earlier my W and I talked/saw each other for the first time in over two months last week and she said she was going to file for D. Now I got an email from her yesterday afternoon saying that she would like to talk about "things" next week. "Things" means division of assets and the like. I have yet to be served and so she may do it at that time also. How do I approach this conversation? What sorts of things do I say? What don't I say? She says she loves me and is being cordial so I ask all of you, should I EVER tell her what a mistake she is making and how she has not thought things out very well? Plead my case? At this point I'm just trying to be a friend and not pressure her.
Me 35 W 31 No Kids Married 7 1/2 Together 12 Separated 11/10/10